Grocery curbside pickup, which allows customers to have their pre-ordered items brought directly to their vehicle, has introduced a common point of confusion regarding tipping etiquette. Navigating this requires understanding the distinction between different service models and the policies of the retailers providing the service. This guide clarifies when and how to show appreciation for the service of getting groceries loaded into the car.
The Current Standard for Tipping Grocery Pickup
Tipping for grocery curbside pickup is generally not a universal expectation, unlike traditional food delivery services. The employees who shop for and load the orders are typically hourly wage earners of the grocery store itself. Their compensation is a set hourly rate, which means they do not rely on gratuities to meet a base minimum income the way a tipped employee might.
While not required, a tip for the pickup service is often appreciated when allowed by the store’s policy. The service provided, such as efficiently locating, bagging, and transporting the order directly to a customer’s car, is part of the employee’s paid job responsibilities. Declining to tip for a standard curbside transaction is considered acceptable etiquette.
Store and Platform Policies That Prohibit Tipping
The employer’s official policy is the largest factor determining whether a tip can be accepted. Many major national grocery and big-box chains explicitly prohibit their employees from accepting tips for curbside pickup orders. These rules are often put in place to ensure consistency in pricing and service, maintaining a clear separation between the cost of the product and the cost of the labor.
Accepting a tip in violation of these policies can sometimes lead to disciplinary action for the employee. Companies often communicate these prohibitions through various channels, such as signage at the pickup spot or messaging within their mobile apps. The rationale often includes the desire to ensure that all employees are paid fairly and consistently through their wages, rather than relying on the unpredictable nature of customer gratuities.
Practical Tipping Guidelines When Allowed
In situations where store policy is ambiguous or for smaller, independent grocers that do permit tipping, a flat rate is generally more appropriate than a percentage of the total grocery bill. Since the employees are not traditionally tipped workers, a common range for this flat rate falls between $3 and $5 for a standard order.
Adjusting the Tip Amount
The size and complexity of the order should influence the final amount, even within this flat-rate structure. Orders containing an unusually high number of heavy or bulky items, such as multiple cases of bottled water or large bags of pet food, warrant an increase in the tip.
A tip should also be adjusted upward when the employee is working in inclement weather, such as extreme heat, heavy rain, or snow, as this significantly increases the difficulty of the service. Exceptional service, like an employee going above and beyond to resolve an issue or quickly locating a hard-to-find item, is also a reason to offer a slightly higher gratuity.
Differentiating Pickup from Grocery Delivery
It is helpful to recognize the difference between grocery pickup and grocery delivery, as the tipping expectations for the two services are separate. Grocery pickup involves the customer driving to the store and having the employee load the order into the vehicle. Grocery delivery, in contrast, involves a driver transporting the order directly to the customer’s home.
For delivery services, tipping is nearly always expected and is a standard part of the transaction, often structured as a percentage of the order total. This is due to the fact that delivery drivers are frequently contractors or third-party service providers who use their own vehicles and rely on tips to supplement their income. The tipping standard for pickup is lower precisely because the service is handled by store employees who are already compensated by the retailer for their time and effort.

