How to Write Up an Employee for Bad Attitude?

Translating Bad Attitude into Observable Behavior

Any behavioral write-up must focus on measurable, observable behaviors rather than the subjective feeling of “bad attitude.” A manager might feel an employee is “negative,” but this feeling must be translated into specific instances that can be recorded and verified. Legal and human resources documentation requires objective facts, such as “used inappropriate language during the team meeting on October 15th by saying ‘This project is a waste of time and nobody will use it.'”

Common symptoms of poor attitude, like a general lack of engagement, must be documented as concrete actions. Examples include missing the last three voluntary team check-ins or failing to respond to internal emails within the 24-hour standard set in the handbook. Perceived negativity should be recorded as discouraging team members from pursuing new projects during brainstorming sessions or openly questioning a manager’s decision in front of clients. This detailed approach establishes a factual foundation for the write-up, ensuring the document addresses actions rather than a personality trait.

Prerequisites for Formal Documentation

Before issuing a formal written warning, management must ensure a progressive disciplinary process has been followed. This process begins with initial coaching sessions and verbal warnings, which must be documented internally with dates and a summary of the conversation and expected correction. Documenting these steps confirms the employee was previously made aware of the performance gap and given an opportunity to improve.

Managers must gather concrete evidence to support the formal documentation. This evidence may include relevant performance metrics, copies of emails demonstrating non-compliance, or written statements from witnesses detailing the specific event. Every action cited in the formal warning must be backed by a verifiable source.

The manager must cite the company’s established policies before proceeding to a formal write-up. The formal warning should explicitly reference the section of the employee handbook or code of conduct that the employee’s behavior violated. Waiting weeks or months to address an infraction undermines the seriousness of the issue and the credibility of the disciplinary process.

Structuring the Formal Written Warning

The structure of the formal written warning must be clear. The document must begin by identifying the specific company policy or standard of conduct that has been violated, linking the employee’s action to the organizational rule. Following this identification, the document must contain a detailed chronology of the specific, dated behaviors that constitute the infraction.

The document should list the facts, such as “On November 1st, 2024, at the 10:00 AM status meeting, you interrupted the client presentation four times after being asked to hold questions.” Documenting the measurable impact of the behavior is also necessary, such as “The repeated interruptions caused the client to delay contract signing by one week, affecting the quarterly revenue forecast.”

The warning must then transition from the past infraction to the future expectation by defining the required corrective action. This section must outline precisely what the employee must change, such as “The employee must participate silently in all client meetings and submit questions to the manager in writing 15 minutes prior to the meeting.”

The document must explicitly state the consequences of failing to meet the required standard within a defined monitoring period. These consequences must be clearly defined, ranging from further disciplinary action, such as suspension without pay, up to and including termination of employment.

Delivering the Warning and Establishing Next Steps

The delivery of the formal written warning should occur in a private meeting, typically involving the direct manager and an HR representative or another management witness. The manager must present the document, outlining the policy violation and the specific instances of behavior that led to the formal action. While the employee should be given a chance to speak and provide context, the manager’s role is not to debate the established facts.

The meeting’s focus should quickly shift to the corrective action plan and the future expectations for performance improvement. The manager must ensure the employee fully understands the behavioral changes required and the explicit consequences should improvement not be met within the specified timeframe.

After reviewing the document, the employee should be asked to sign the warning to acknowledge receipt. Should an employee refuse to sign, the manager and witness must document the refusal on the form itself, confirming that the document was presented, reviewed, and explained.

Maintaining Consistency and Legal Compliance

Effective disciplinary action requires maintaining consistent application of policy across the organization. Managers must ensure that all employees are held to the same standards and that similar infractions result in comparable disciplinary responses. Deviations from this standard can expose the company to claims of unfair treatment or discrimination.

Proper documentation, following a structured process, serves as the defense against potential legal challenges, such as wrongful termination claims. The documented facts demonstrate that the disciplinary decision was based on behaviors and not on factors related to an employee’s protected class status. Managers must be mindful to avoid any action that could be perceived as retaliation after an employee has raised a complaint or engaged in protected activity.

Following a defensible, detailed process ensures that performance management remains effective and legally sound. A failure to document consistently can lead to liability if an employee successfully argues they were treated differently due to a discriminatory reason.